Love letter......by Ziggy

This letter was written to me by a very special someone. Right then I did not realize how much I meant. I do now, and thanks to this guy I am reminded daily. Thank you special guy :), here is your letter exactly how u wrote it 7 years ago.

July 2002

" Ah, my dear Ruxandra,

How could I POSSIBLY forget you? You were one of the first people whose name I remembered. I knew from the very FIRST day that you were someone I wanted to know better.

And since we never really talked that much, I want you to promise me that in the future days, months, and years, you will talk to me, tell me more about you...and just generally keep in touch FOREVER!! :).

Ruxy, you are truly a remarkable girl. Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise. The BEST thing you said in the entire time I've ever known you was back when we were interviewing each other. You said you wanted people to see you as exactly who you are, And as far as I am concerned, I have never met anyone who is more herself than you, and that quality draws people to you. Everyone here - including me - loves you. To say that the camp would not have been the same without you - while true - is kinda silly, and yes everyone says it. So instead I will say that I am so fortunate to have been at this camp because you were here.

You are wonderful with the kids, you are so fun to be with, and you are missed when you're not around.

Ruxy, you are unforgettable. I will always remember you when I think of this camp, and I am so glad for that.

Take goo care of yoursef, enjoy life, and live each moment to the fullest. (Even though you do that already).

With all my love.

....."

It took him 30 days to get to know me. And yes we still talk and I still love this guy, although he is so many miles away.

I am somebody...by Ziggy

I am old enough to know better, but young enough not to care if people know me or not. Still I felt recently that getting to know somebody is like going to a dating marathon where you spend ten minutes with each guy, and you have to share as many things as possible about yourself and then the guy gets 10 minutes. Like a game of chess, when getting checkmate means getting the chance to know the person even better:).

And because a person might not win the "game" I felt like sharing one or two things about me, myself and I (Violet defined my 3 R's - Ruxi, Ruxandra, Ruxitza )

1) I always smile :) and I have a really loud laugh

2) I cannot step on lines on the streets so that's why sometimes I look like I am playing a game instead of walking

3) I am day dreamer and I have a big imagination

4) I love reading

5) I relate to quotes from all kinds of books or magazines and I share as many as possible

6) I truly believe that in life there is "one true love, the ones that come before are meant to teach you, and the ones that after are just routines"

7) I believe that the greatest love story ever told is your own

8) I believe at the end of the day we are what we do

9) My favorite numbers are odd numbers

10) I could walk all day just looking at the people around me

11) I love driving

12) My favorite desert includes: pancakes with ice-cream and melted chocolate

13) I love sitting at home watching the movies that I love and eating popcorn along side with a really big glass of Pepsi.

14) I am the most romantic person in the world, so I am still waiting for Price Charming (P.S. Prince Charming I have changed my zip code :P).

15) I admire my mother for being the great woman that she is and I am grateful for the love she has shown me and for surprising me each and every day.

Yellow...by Ziggy

Long time no nothing. I am changing that.

I have just remembered a discussion that I had with a great friend of mine almost a year ago about the things that get lost in the process of breaking up: pillows, teddy bears and many other things that you give to the other person and you never get back as u refuse to have any discussion with him or her.

If I remember well I don't think I've had this kind of loss, but I did loose people that I loved. What I did realize is that what once meant something about that person now means nothing. I even realized that certain songs that hurt while hearing now make me smile or are just simple songs that have no special or dramatic meaning any more.

So I came to the conclusion that sooner or later things will get better, one way or the other, like or not. Still I cannot help but wonder: why do people play the role of the victim and destroy them selfs a little bit every day, only to realize later on that it was all for nothing, because the time lost cannot be brought back?

Because I am in a really good mood I dedicate the song Yellow from Coldplay to the people I love, cause it has such a positive vibe from my point of view.

Love as seen by others...by Ziggy

"Though still in bed, my thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved, now and then joyfully, then sadly, waiting to learn whether or not fate will hear us - I can live only wholly with you or not at all - Yes, I am resolved to wander so long away from you until I can fly to your arms and say that I am really at home with you...Be calm, only by a calm consideration of our existence can we achieve our purpose to live together - Be calm - love me - today - yesterday - what tearful longings for you - you - you - my life - my all - farewell. Oh continue to love me - never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved. ever thineever mineever ours "

Beethoven - Love Letters of Great Men

No matter what she's a beliver... so go ahead and leave her...by Ziggy

How do we know when a broken heart is filled with love again. Most people that are hurt by love state that they will not be able to love another person again.
I say this because I was one of those persons that used to think that my first love would be as the last one as well. And when all hell broke loose and the big love ended, I was suuuure that he was my one true love that was just not meant to be. Again I was wrong, cause slowly but surely he started being forgotten by my heart. And when all love was gone I realized that I only wanted the good and happy times that he managed to be a part of and not the man himself.

And yes I am sure today that there is love after love. And yes I am sure that the heart can be again filled with love, no matter how much you were hurt. How do you know that this one is going to work out fine? How do you know that this one will be better than the previous one? Well my friend the answer is: you don't know, and that is the joy of life. Living one day at a time, along side with the ones you love and the ones that you love less.

And yes I got the opportunity to fill my broken heart with love again. I got the opportunity to believe even more in romance and I got that constant thing that keeps me dreaming about true love and helps me write these lines. He is leaving and taking my heart with him. Maybe he will come back and return it to me along side with his heart. In case he won't be able to do that it's ok. There is more from where that came for him, when he has the courage to take it all in. And if this is not still not enough for him, I know that there is a man courageous enoug to love me.

Tale as old as time...by Ziggy

"In viata nu ai decat o unica mare dragoste: toate cele care o preced sunt amoruri de rodaj, iar toatecele care o urmeaza sunt amoruri de recuperare".

And I agree with it. Viata iti ofera o unica mare iubire, altfel nu ar mai fi catalagota ca fiind UNICA. Ironia sortii este ca oamenii au uitat sa traiasca in prezent si se gandesc doar la ce "trebuie" sa faca pentru viitorul lor. Ironia face ca in cautarea persoanei ideale pentru noi, o pierdem sau nu o recunoastem pentru ca ratiunea noastra este aceea de a fi intr-o continua cautare, nu de a gasire, recunoaste si accepta acea unica mare iubire.

Si uite asa ajungem sa traim amoruri de rodaj sau si mai trist amoruri de recuperare.
Citatul de mai sus m-a puspe ganduri. M-a ajutat sa imi dau seama ca am trait intr-adevar o iubire de rodaj, care m-a ajutat sa urc inca o treapta spre maturizare si spre definirea mea ca femeie.

Nu stiu daca am intalnit marea iubire, maybe it just passed me by on the street. Totusi stiu ca am capacitatea de a ma darui total si neconditionat atunci cand iubesc.

Si pentru ca sunt o romantica incurabila, sper ca marea iubire sa ma gaseasca sau sa ma regaseasca... si daca cumva am trecut pe langa ea, sa ma ierte si sa intoarca :)

Party like a Superstar...by Ziggy

This Friday, dress to impress, show off your dazzling attitude. Have a taste of fame while sipping on a delicious cocktail. You’ll be the center of attention, make everybody stop and stare, all eyes on you. Anybody can become a superstar, just for one night, Friday night.
Escape from the paparazzi and come to your SUPERSTAR Party.

Dance music selected only for YOU!

Cocktail of the night : Perfect MARTINI

Ask the bartender for the special offer!

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